Who Cares ?

Its Exam Time ....... moreover , its Accountancy next.
( I wrote the whole thing A-C-C-O-U-N-T-A-N-C-Y.....i've been practicing so that samson sir does'nt cut a mark...)
And despite the fact that my performance in this subject has been less than brilliant ( ugghh less than average i think ) I still can't get myself to care ( read- give a fuck ) .
Infact i have'nt had ANY care for quite some time now ( since i gave the MCQ of Board ).
So why is it ???? WHY IS IT THAT I HAVE WASTED A WHOLE YEAR DOING NOTHING ????????
Because my beloved reader the boards come back again next year , and so i thought - why the hell waste time doing something you anyways will have to do for in the last year of the school.
By far this has been the worst academic year .....and because of the academic part of it, it has been quite a bad year too......my parens are unhappy, teachers are unhappy and somewhere its been getting me down.
This doesnt translate to the fact that i am unhappy......i have had a GREAT time
I found new company in Ambi , Chari, DJ and Chip and they have been with me through the best part of the year.
Bhatia found arm candy ( :P )
I discovered the best of facebook....thanks to Mathur. Divij and Parth ( specifically )
I have had the most disgustingly perverted conversations with V,A and M.
Ive given quite a performance to remember in my last Maths paper and there seems to be no improvement in my behaviour towards making any change in the situation.
SO I THOUGHT ILL GIVE ALL OF YOU THE ADVICE ( though its a bit late now )
Have you been showing a constantly barf worthy performance academically this last year ?
Have you been constantly worried about your minimum marks yet facebooking all of the time?
Have you recieved the most disgusting look from your parents because you don't care about your 'future' ?
Then remember that these are the last few days of fun with no responsibility ( next year will be fun with responsibilty { how can anything in which i am involved be not fun :P ?})
DONT LET THEM GO AND MAKE THE MOST OF THEM . The next time you get such freedom you will be official adults.
So don't care....just make it through.( i wanna see you all with me next year{ my chances are just as bad as yours} )
DON'T CARE PEOPLE !!!!!DON'T CARE !!!!
Because i love all of you :D
Mee

POSITIVITY MAKES THIS WORLD A MUCH COOLER PLACE TO LiVE .... DUHhh :-)

I’d say Personalised living is the way to go !!
from dressing – out in the sun with slippers and a pair of shorts ?
from eating - peanut butter with oreos? Dosas with chicken nuggets?
from dancing - Beyonce style or your own moves which might have faint resemblance with that of a 70's star :p
etc , etc
To relationships included – life is what you make it .
Each and everyone of us is convinced that whatever we do , whichever way we do it and why we do it , is right ! and why shouldn’t we be ? as long as we live and let live.
Isn’t that even what blogging is about ? ‘Expression’ and NOT ‘ Suggestion’.
After reading our Valentine updates …

I’ve had some things on my mind as well , not judgements :-) only thoughts :-)
· Valentine’s day is lame . I’m convinced.
· Being single shows greater degree of individuality and freedom than being in a relationship … ? hmm…not necessarily.
Lets get back to the “Everything being personalised” and being “ apni marzi ka malik” which each one of us boast about .
( IN EXCEPTION TO HIGHLY OBSESSIVE DRAMATIC EXAMPLES OF coochie –cooing WE SIGHT)

· People have THE FREEDOM TO GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP AT THEIR OWN WILL” don’t they?
Its entirely a matter of one’s own choice.
Freedom loving people would not get along with anyone who’s not freedom loving and freedom giving ENOUGH.
??????? and why have a compulsion of diary entering into one’s partner, isn’t it about being able to share things if wanting to and opening up Instead of HAVING to tell everthing?
Yes there’s a right time for everything , but the right time may not be the same for everyone
· When it comes to committment (between two people),why is it such a big deal ( for others) ? aren’t we all in some way or the other committed to our parents , to our studies ,to watching the latest Harry potter /Bond flick , to OUR FRIENDS , its just that we don’t notice it and the word is equated with SACRIFICE in terms with your boyfriends/girlfriends. this however is neither fair nor right.
Its just makes it OVERRATED even though its not .
Why would any highly individualistic person , fall for an obsessive , not equally competent one?
Individualists appreciate individuality in the other person, not give up theirs to be with them.Arent they supposed to be cooler than that?

Why are some relationships graded against the others. Why are couples entertainment material for people ? isn’t there much more to life ? better things to do .
Being in a relationship that doesn’t take away your perks of being single. Isn’t that what everyone wants. Its not unacheiveble ,really .
pl. dont get the impression that i'm favouring relationships , i'm just neutral towards them just like every 2nd other thing around me .

I’m single , I’m happy .
Tagged as “captain of cool’ – what more could I want ? ;-)

(CURRENTLY , this is what I think )

I think its all about being satisfied at whichever state you are at PRESENT ! and loving it! Only a pleasant present will lead to a fantastic future !
So here’s Vam’s tip of the day: Its best to keep your ideas flexible ;-) cause change is inevitable !
Adios.
-Vam

Hm…. So Mee finally got me writing:

First off Hi ! I’m not Vam I’m “Am” , her sister ! My actual name however is Amiya! So Mee says Valentine’s Day = Lame day because relationships are lame … I both agree and disagree with her ! Valentine’s day = Lame day , OH YES ! Truer than words can explain ! however , relationships are lame : not so much !

I think that being single , I can’t really say much about relationships as such however I do agree that those who are in the absolutely obsessive relationships (look at Mee’s 3 points ) : PLEASE please please , GET A LIFE ! I dare , plead , beg you to !

Okay so whithout making any more IBness flow out and bore you , Here’s my list of 14 Reasons why Valentine’s Day is LAME :

14. It tries to make the single people feel sad , hence taking away the very basic right to be yourself and happy about it , it creates a stereotype for happiness : You have someone to be with on Valentine’s Day = You are happy ! to which all I want to say is EXCUSE ME ? Here’s the no. of the mental hospital : Go see a Psychiatrist !!

I am single and I CAN BE happy on Valentine’s day ! AND you know what I AM !

13. It’s a stressor even for people in love (Supposedly or Truly- in love that is ;) ) ! What should I Buy ? How do I find a new way to say “I love you” ??

Blah Blah Blah !! (No offence to the commited but being Single rocks! – I think :P )

12. Valentine’s Day as we all know stands for “Saint Valentine’s Day” , well , What was it that Saint Valentine did that the so called “day of love “ is named after him ? Well That is UNKOWN ! This is what Wikipedia says :

“Numerous early Christian martyrs were named Valentine. The Valentines honored on February 14 are Valentine of Rome (Valentinus presb. m. Romae) and Valentine of Terni (Valentinus ep. Interamnensis m. Romae). Valentine of Rome was a priest in Rome who was martyred about AD 269 and was buried on the Via Flaminia. His relics are at the Church of Saint Praxed in Rome, and at Whitefriar Street Carmelite Church in Dublin, Ireland.

No romantic elements are present in the original early medieval biographies of either of these martyrs. By the time a Saint Valentine became linked to romance in the fourteenth century, distinctions between Valentine of Rome and Valentine of Terni were utterly lost.^”

So basically we are celebrating something we don’t really know much about and calling people our “Valentine(s)” WITHOUT knowing what that means ! The name of the “holiday” is almost BOGUS !

11. It’s a “HALLMARK HOLIDAY” which is to say that it exists only because of commercial reasons and does not have a tradition to commemorate which is religious or non-religious !

Basically the point of the “holiday” is that it makes a LOT of MONEY for greeting card , chocolate and other companies that make the things YOU buy for Valentine’s day ! I would call that a “ I’m going to give my hard-earned money to the companies selling merchandise that I don’t want or need because they make me believe that I SHALL be Unhappy/UNLOVED without this merchandise”

10. It isn’t even a celebration of love ! It is a celebration of the stupidity of the people who celebrate it despite the above 4 points !

9. It materializes LOVE the one thing that SHOULD be left free for all because EVERYONE without exception DESERVES TO BE LOVED !!

8. It isn’t good for most people’s mental health or Love relationships ! It makes you question yourself , your love , the ones you love and their love ! How is that healthy ? Especially in this case when you question it because of the lack or presence of a present and a card ?

7. It tries to UNIVERSALLY DEFINE love and GENERALISE it for EVERYONE ! Just like beauty and attraction love isn’t meant to be generalized or universally defined ! Its very beauty lies in its complexity and mystery ! It is NOT meant to be a mathematical equation after all !

6. It unfairly raises expectations : “If s/he loves me , I’ll be sent a present !“ “Today is the day of love therefore I WILL find my true love today! ” etc. etc. All of this is , excuse my language : A LOAD OF CRAP ! Its just another day , just another 14^th day of a month ! Nothing is going to happen that cannot happen on any other day !

5. At the risk of being called a non-romantic : It just disrupts the regular flow of life and work !

4. It gives out labels : if you celebrate it then you are “loved , in love” etc. and if you don’t you are a “ V-Day hater , lonely depressed single person” etc etc. which just isn’t right !

3. It trivializes the very thing it claims to celebrate : LOVE ! Love is a constant thing if your are in love it isn’t for a day every-year ! Its for a long time , longer than 24 hrs at least ! It just like Mother’s Day or Father’s Day or Grandparents Day : I have them in my life and if I truly appreciate it then my daily actions will show it better than any gift or card that I might give once a year !

2. It defines a time for expressing , appreciating , acknowledging , feeling LOVE ! things that we should be doing everyday ! at the same time it also gives people an excuse to ignore love on other days ! Which is just : Stupid , Lame , Dumb …. Etc etc.

1. It makes your love lose its individuality ! After all YOUR love isn’t like anyone else’s love just like you its UNIQUE and this uniqueness should be celebrated ! So Why celebrate it the same day and in the same way as a few million other people?

Celebrate your love in your own way ! That will mean SOO much more !

That was my list !

Now because I LOVE reason number 1 , Here is how to use it :

· Pick your own personal “Day of Love” ( I refuse to call it Valentine’s day) , in a month , season that you like , go ahead ! Pick a number or day you like or a date that is special to YOU and YOUR LOVED ONE !

· Do something that is special to you two ! Don’t let the world define how you love and express your love !

· If you give cards and presents let them be personalized or hand-made instead of store bought ! Instead of Red Roses use birthflowers , the other person’s favourite fowers , make a card and write your heart out in it IN YOUR OWN WORDS !

· Basically just do what you LOVE with the one you love after all its all to Celebrate love a little more than every other day that you celebrate it by living it

Thank you for reading !

                                Happy Lame Day

So there, I said it, Valentines = Lame, and by this equation Valentines Day is Lame day. This Blog is dedicated to all the singles out there ( MAKE SOME NOISE ) and also to some of my dearest friends who have given in to the lameness of  making a commitment .

Let me give you a 3 point description of why relationships are lame.

1. Where’s my Freedom ???

Only those who really appreciate freedom value it like I do. Sadly relationships make you lose most of your freedom. Your honey bunny will want to know everything, and you will have to answer. Yes, yes you will have to answer, soo all you committed people out there are missing out something we single people are high on. We are not answerable to anyone, Mind you no one (exception being parents who I don’t mind answering to , they are the reason im writing in the first place).We are not calling up anyone to tell them where we are going ,or tell them what we are doing when we say we can’t talk. We don’t have to give details of the people we are involved with or why we have a certain group of non-tolerable friends. I’ll say it again. WE ARE NOT ANSWERABLE TO ANYONE.

 

2. Did I just give up my free time and creativity for a boyfriend ??

C’mon !! How much time do we get for ourselves anyway?? Those who are hardworking would know the worth of self time, and trust me you lose it all when you get yourself a boyfriend. And please who will leave Vogue, Vuitton and Versace for lousy guys ???

Labels or Love is and overrated question because the answer is easy. ;)

 

3. Bye - Bye Individuality

I’m sorry to say this but all you people in love ( at least those who are 17 ) have lost yourselves. To find the ultimate happiness in your relationship you have sacrificed your individuality. If it is not so you are confused if its meant to be at all???

Don’t believe me ……. When was the last time any of you had a conversation which did not involve your so called girl/boyfriend. Doesn’t it always start or end there. Trust me I’ve been listening, and it does.( for those few who do not think so, maybe its not true ….. but this is because you really have found a partner who gives you as much freedom as you give give him/her and so is probably not around you 24/7 through all modes of communication literally possible). As according to my observation all couples start seeing themselves as a single personality, they don’t do things without each other, they don’t plan things without knowing the other’s plan, moreover they might just be planning to go to the same place for graduation ….are you seriously restricting yourself because of that ????One question please ………. WHAT FOR ???? a happily married life ?????

As reference to those who have planned on a house, and their kids name and their dog’s house………please!!!!give me a break.

 

So as I told someone this might not apply to all (fine not committed dude, I give you this one)……but to those of whom it does, people get over this phase …..because its Lame .

 

Because we singles love ourselves too much to commit so soon and give up on all that free privilege of flirting with anyone and everyone, today while the whole world does cheesy things for their loved ones I can live with the great satisfaction of the fact that if tomorrow I want to leave on that much awaited road trip all alone , I don’t have to think about someone or miss him throughout the journey. Take your time Mr right, because I’m not waiting right now ( or ever) :D.

 

Just rightfully want to add what Ayn Rand so perfectly said – In order to be able to say to say I LOVE YOU to someone , you need to be able to say the I first.

 

 

Loving my free spirit :D :D

Mee

  

 

Beloved blog,
EXAMS BRING OUT THE CREATIVE BEST IN ME ;-)

Besides the( longer than Rapunzel’s hair) journal ,ledger and tb’s we have to make , I have come to realise Thaaat , over the years when I sat staring at my textbooks… exam-time has really been the days when I’ve thought of THE coolest plans , The sweetest surprises, The silliest pranks , AND of all the super duper exciting fun that lies ahead ,post the overrated 3 weeks that are going to follow…..this year has been no different .
The needle of my study compass points towards the opposite direction as my mind breaks records of all the randomness that has ever cropped up inside it .
That’s precisely why I’m here while I should be concentrating on straight lines and the points that lie here and there around them .but what the hell? Every sentence with a ‘should’ in it spells rubbish for the free spirited !
Instead my mind is processing some other thousand things ….

But , when I take a moment from this interruption and look back at my textbook ….
I actually feel excited to study . uhm weird I know but that’s how it is

.I think the momentary happiness that comes after (i dont like to refer to is as this but .. whatever )- day dreaming makes me wanna finish off with the exams ASAP , and finish off with them well .

I’m sure I’m not the only one who experiences this ,
it’s a common case of coolness :p
Hoping everyone gets to celebrate a happy ending to the exams .
ciao

-Vam