Happy Lame Day

So there, I said it, Valentines = Lame, and by this equation Valentines Day is Lame day. This Blog is dedicated to all the singles out there ( MAKE SOME NOISE ) and also to some of my dearest friends who have given in to the lameness of  making a commitment .

Let me give you a 3 point description of why relationships are lame.

1. Where’s my Freedom ???

Only those who really appreciate freedom value it like I do. Sadly relationships make you lose most of your freedom. Your honey bunny will want to know everything, and you will have to answer. Yes, yes you will have to answer, soo all you committed people out there are missing out something we single people are high on. We are not answerable to anyone, Mind you no one (exception being parents who I don’t mind answering to , they are the reason im writing in the first place).We are not calling up anyone to tell them where we are going ,or tell them what we are doing when we say we can’t talk. We don’t have to give details of the people we are involved with or why we have a certain group of non-tolerable friends. I’ll say it again. WE ARE NOT ANSWERABLE TO ANYONE.

 

2. Did I just give up my free time and creativity for a boyfriend ??

C’mon !! How much time do we get for ourselves anyway?? Those who are hardworking would know the worth of self time, and trust me you lose it all when you get yourself a boyfriend. And please who will leave Vogue, Vuitton and Versace for lousy guys ???

Labels or Love is and overrated question because the answer is easy. ;)

 

3. Bye - Bye Individuality

I’m sorry to say this but all you people in love ( at least those who are 17 ) have lost yourselves. To find the ultimate happiness in your relationship you have sacrificed your individuality. If it is not so you are confused if its meant to be at all???

Don’t believe me ……. When was the last time any of you had a conversation which did not involve your so called girl/boyfriend. Doesn’t it always start or end there. Trust me I’ve been listening, and it does.( for those few who do not think so, maybe its not true ….. but this is because you really have found a partner who gives you as much freedom as you give give him/her and so is probably not around you 24/7 through all modes of communication literally possible). As according to my observation all couples start seeing themselves as a single personality, they don’t do things without each other, they don’t plan things without knowing the other’s plan, moreover they might just be planning to go to the same place for graduation ….are you seriously restricting yourself because of that ????One question please ………. WHAT FOR ???? a happily married life ?????

As reference to those who have planned on a house, and their kids name and their dog’s house………please!!!!give me a break.

 

So as I told someone this might not apply to all (fine not committed dude, I give you this one)……but to those of whom it does, people get over this phase …..because its Lame .

 

Because we singles love ourselves too much to commit so soon and give up on all that free privilege of flirting with anyone and everyone, today while the whole world does cheesy things for their loved ones I can live with the great satisfaction of the fact that if tomorrow I want to leave on that much awaited road trip all alone , I don’t have to think about someone or miss him throughout the journey. Take your time Mr right, because I’m not waiting right now ( or ever) :D.

 

Just rightfully want to add what Ayn Rand so perfectly said – In order to be able to say to say I LOVE YOU to someone , you need to be able to say the I first.

 

 

Loving my free spirit :D :D

Mee