POSITIVITY MAKES THIS WORLD A MUCH COOLER PLACE TO LiVE .... DUHhh :-)

I’d say Personalised living is the way to go !!
from dressing – out in the sun with slippers and a pair of shorts ?
from eating - peanut butter with oreos? Dosas with chicken nuggets?
from dancing - Beyonce style or your own moves which might have faint resemblance with that of a 70's star :p
etc , etc
To relationships included – life is what you make it .
Each and everyone of us is convinced that whatever we do , whichever way we do it and why we do it , is right ! and why shouldn’t we be ? as long as we live and let live.
Isn’t that even what blogging is about ? ‘Expression’ and NOT ‘ Suggestion’.
After reading our Valentine updates …

I’ve had some things on my mind as well , not judgements :-) only thoughts :-)
· Valentine’s day is lame . I’m convinced.
· Being single shows greater degree of individuality and freedom than being in a relationship … ? hmm…not necessarily.
Lets get back to the “Everything being personalised” and being “ apni marzi ka malik” which each one of us boast about .
( IN EXCEPTION TO HIGHLY OBSESSIVE DRAMATIC EXAMPLES OF coochie –cooing WE SIGHT)

· People have THE FREEDOM TO GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP AT THEIR OWN WILL” don’t they?
Its entirely a matter of one’s own choice.
Freedom loving people would not get along with anyone who’s not freedom loving and freedom giving ENOUGH.
??????? and why have a compulsion of diary entering into one’s partner, isn’t it about being able to share things if wanting to and opening up Instead of HAVING to tell everthing?
Yes there’s a right time for everything , but the right time may not be the same for everyone
· When it comes to committment (between two people),why is it such a big deal ( for others) ? aren’t we all in some way or the other committed to our parents , to our studies ,to watching the latest Harry potter /Bond flick , to OUR FRIENDS , its just that we don’t notice it and the word is equated with SACRIFICE in terms with your boyfriends/girlfriends. this however is neither fair nor right.
Its just makes it OVERRATED even though its not .
Why would any highly individualistic person , fall for an obsessive , not equally competent one?
Individualists appreciate individuality in the other person, not give up theirs to be with them.Arent they supposed to be cooler than that?

Why are some relationships graded against the others. Why are couples entertainment material for people ? isn’t there much more to life ? better things to do .
Being in a relationship that doesn’t take away your perks of being single. Isn’t that what everyone wants. Its not unacheiveble ,really .
pl. dont get the impression that i'm favouring relationships , i'm just neutral towards them just like every 2nd other thing around me .

I’m single , I’m happy .
Tagged as “captain of cool’ – what more could I want ? ;-)

(CURRENTLY , this is what I think )

I think its all about being satisfied at whichever state you are at PRESENT ! and loving it! Only a pleasant present will lead to a fantastic future !
So here’s Vam’s tip of the day: Its best to keep your ideas flexible ;-) cause change is inevitable !
Adios.
-Vam